This is something that I felt like was difficult for me in some classes, especially lower division differential equations and linear algebra classes. I know professors want to motivate certain topics but I feel like offering motivation honestly confused me more than helped, and I see this with some students I tutor.
Now, applications are good. Applications are great. Especially for non pure mathematicians, which is the majority of people taking these classes. However applications should be taught separately from the math, otherwise it can get really confusing. Most concepts in linear algebra and differential equations are honestly really basic straightforward definitions.
In particular, one that really stood out to me were eigenvectors/eigenvalues. I was confused until I stopped listening to all this nonsense about stretching, compressing, rotations, pictures of the Mona Lisa (https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/3/3c/Mona_Lisa_eigenvector_grid.png/320px-Mona_Lisa_eigenvector_grid.png), linear transformations, cute pictures of arrows getting stretched or turned around, differential equations, all of the answers in What is the best way to intuitively explain what eigenvectors and eigenvalues are, AND their importance?, etc.
I remember SO MUCH hoopla about eigenvectors and eigenvalues. To be frank, it confused the hell out of me. Once I ignored the motivation and just accepted "an eigenvalue/eigenvector of a matrix $M$ are a pair $\lambda, \vec{v}$ such that $M\vec{v}=\lambda\vec{v}$", it got so much easier and clearer. Now I understand what everyone is saying but at the time what professors were saying seemed so much at odds with what I actually had to do. Pictures of the Mona Lisa, compression, rotations, etc. have nothing to do with what I had to do, and that is take the determinant of a matrix and solve for the roots.
I see this in students sometimes. They vaguely talk about these "motivators" but might not even be able to define what an eigenvalue is!, for example. It's not just linear algebra, but I feel like a lot of professors try to motivate and show connections too much, and it really is at odds with what students have to actually do.
I guess my question is, when is there too much motivation? Is it too much motivation, or just not enough basics?