In a course for non-math-majors at a liberal arts college, I would like to give a few lectures and activities about groups and symmetry. I think it's straightforward to explain the group axioms and why they apply to, for instance, the set of symmetries of a regular polygon like a square. However, I would like to motivate these axioms by also presenting examples of algebraic structures that violate one, or some combination, of the standard group axioms: closure, associativity, identity, and invertibility. I also want to explain the importance of commutativity, although simple examples of noncommutative operations abound (e.g. subtraction of integers). However, the Wikipedia page for non-associativity has only technical examples that will be incomprehensible to, for instance, a History major. But that doesn't mean they can't appreciate symmetry, so ...
Q: Can you suggest particular examples of "algebraic structures", with a preference for "real life" examples, that violate some of the standard group axioms and related algebraic properties? It would be even better if you could suggest in-class activities that would make the concepts especially clear to a non-mathematically-trained student.